We all desire and want certain things in our lives. The Law of Attraction is all about focus and energy. What we focus upon, we expand and make larger….or in other words – “what we think about, we bring about”. But, as we all desire these nice things and try to think and talk positive, many times these nice things just never materialize in our lives.
Why is that? There is a whole process to learn about how the Law of Attraction works, but there are two very important parts that many leave out (or do not know about):
- Expectation
- Non-attachment
The secret to attracting everything one wants is a combination of a burning desire to have it and, even more importantly, to have an expectation that achieving this desire is INEVITABLE. Although possessing a burning desire for something is a great asset to support its accomplishment, it is not enough by itself to make it happen.
Here’s an example:
If you filled a football stadium with 100,000 people and asked them, “How many of you really want to be wealthy, healthy and happy?” The vast majority would answer in the affirmative. However, because most of these people do not expect to be wealthy, healthy and happy, most do not possess the self-motivation to be the person they need to be and do the things they need to do to bring this reality into action.
The second important missing element to manifesting what you want, is to be non-attached to the desired outcome. This can be quite a challenge, as once we put our intention out into the universe, when it does not come to us as quickly as we want (or expecting), we start to doubt the process.
Be specific on what you want to manifest, expect it in your core as if it has already materialized, and then LET IT GO! You will be amazed just how quickly your desire comes to you, when you stop doubting yourself and replace the worry with confidence and the expectation that it has already happened.
Everything is energy and vibrational. “What we think about, we bring about!” Whatever energy we put forth into the world will attract to us those people, opportunities and circumstances that are consistent with that energy.
If we want to attract loving people into our lives, we need to have love in our hearts that flows outward toward others. If we want abundance in financial means, we need to conquer our scarcity mindset and exude generosity. If we want to be charismatic and inspirational, we would be well-served to take our focus off of ourselves and instead look for ways to provide value and contribution to others.
The opposite is true as well. Remember, everything is energetic or vibrational. The Law of Attraction is just that…whatever we focus on (good or bad) will come back to us in a similar form. If we fear that others will hurt us, our energy will be defensive in nature and we will tend to attract the very things we fear the most. If we think that scarcity rules the world, that is precisely what the world will give us.
But….just know that everything will not always be “coming up roses”, if you think and talk positively, and taking the action to make these good things manifest. Even though every moment we have a choice to live a good life, and the beginning of this good life is in our perception of what we see in the world focusing on the good (not the bad), we do not have control over external/outside circumstances happening in the world.
It really is an “inside job”…
Always have realistic expectations that problems or challenges will certainly arise whenever you dare to commit to any grand gestures, asking for the world at your fingertips. Expect, welcome and embrace any challenges that will surely come into your experience along the road of life. If you are prepared to enjoy the growth process (that comes with any challenges you experience), welcome them and look for the gifts and insights that will come to you….step out of your comfort zone and be willing to ‘play the game’. Great learning experiences and powerful manifestations will result. If you engage in the pursuit of your goals while being committed to them, but without being fully attached to them, you will be amazed just how much you end up accomplishing….than if you fear new challenges and avoid risks.
The bottom line is that having a positive attitude is a critical component to manifesting all of the great things in life that you desire. Be open to accepting and learning from any challenges that come up and keep your eye on the big picture. Keep checking in to make sure that your attitude and expectations are consistent with your desires and dreams.
Take a chance, and PLAY FULL OUT! In the end, you will be glad you did.
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